Erotic gadgets and accessories for BDSM
Bondage games and sadomasochism are becoming more and more popular. Lovers, tempted by the promise of very sinful pleasures, start to reach for various accessories, which allow feeling not only typically erotic pleasure, but also sweet pain – physical and spiritual. What kind of BDSM gadgets should be in the bedroom of every lover of such practices? We write about it in the article below. Read it and find out what BDSM accessories are necessary in every BDSM fan’s collection!
Handcuffs and strings – indispensable elements of sexual enslavement
Bondage, domination and sado-maso games are becoming an increasingly popular type of fetish. No wonder, then, that there is a growing interest in the products that lovers buy to enter into such an arrangement. An important element of BDSM is bondage. It takes place on various levels – from attitudes and relationships where one party imposes their will on the other, to the physical immobilization of the submissive partner. For this, you need the right BDSM gadgets.
Naturally, in the very beginning, ties, scarves or trouser belts, for example, will suffice. With time, however, your appetite grows, and you want more. Then BDSM accessories for bondage will be indispensable. One of the basic ones, available in most sex shops (and, possibly, in military shops), are handcuffs. They come in many forms. For casuals, there are usually models with soft fur and a secure lever that enables you to quickly uncuff yourself. The more committed will reach for leather handcuffs with straps, for example. The texture of such material alone can arouse the senses, plus there is a restriction of movement. Hardcore sex offenders do not mess around and often resort to police type handcuffs that can only be opened with a key. This has the strongest effect on the imagination and makes the submissive partner fully dependent on the dominator.
This is slightly different for cords. Of course – they are also used for tying arms and legs… but in practice these BDSM accessories often play a much more important role. This is because immobilization alone is not enough here, as knotting is an art. By the way – it was once created in Japan. Shibari, as it is called, originates from the method of restraining prisoners in order to immobilize them completely and in a variety of positions. Today it is associated with a kind of beauty. It is difficult to deny the artistry of precisely running knots through the whole body. It is important to remember that it cannot be just any rope. They are usually made of silk or other delicate materials.
Punishment – whips and slaps
Enslavement is one side of the coin. Equally important in BDSM relationships is the causing and receiving of pain. The tools of such “sweet torture” are numerous! From staves, which take on all sorts of shapes – a simple board, a heart or a brush to whips.
For the vast majority of recipients, such BDSM accessories are made of delicate materials. Clotheslines, for example, are made of either polyester or soft cotton. Those who want to feel real pain, on the other hand, usually reach for gadgets made of leather, for example. However, it is worth bearing in mind that such articles can already cause serious harm. Therefore, the force with which you strike should be adjusted in such a way so as not to damage your partner’s body.
Electrifying sex – gadgets for electrostimulation
Those who take it to the higher level can turn to BDSM gadgets that use low intensity electricity. Electrostimulation is not a new trend, but it is definitely one of the fresher and increasingly popular ones. This is due to the fact that manufacturers are more and more willing to launch, for instance, electrically conductive vibrators, whereas once upon a time only special instruments and electrodes were used for this type of play.
Such BDSM electrocuting accessories can provide an orgasm even in a few seconds, but there are a few restrictions on their use. These games are only for healthy people, plus no metal implants or pacemakers. Be sure to read the safety rules before using such BSDM gadgets.
The outfit also counts!
It should be remembered that domination and sadomasochism are not only BDSM accessories, but also elements of clothing. The very sight of e.g. a partner in a latex set can arouse huge excitement, especially if someone likes such clothes (we wrote about what the underwear fetish is about on our blog, among other things). Besides, there are other types of clothing for such games. Bodystockings, for example, are perfect for them. BDSM gadgets included in the outfit are also all masks and gags, increasing domination over the other person.
BDSM is not just about gadgets!
The catalogue of such items is naturally much wider. BDSM accessories such as chastity belts (for her and for him), which give more control over the partner, and also such large constructions as crosses or stocks are worth mentioning. It is worth remembering, however, that such a relationship is based not only on BDSM gadgets, but above all on the attitudes of the partners. There is no single recipe here – everyone works out their own schemes. The important thing is that such an arrangement brings pleasure to both parties. And if you want to be on a constant basis with different fetishes, including BDSM – join the LoveMyFeet fans!
