What is cuckold or controlled betrayal?
Fetishes have many faces. While some people are tempted by specific scents, others prefer specific caresses. There is, however, a group of people, mainly men, fantasising about cuckold. What is it? Why does controlled betrayal, for some, feed their relationship? Is it worth trying? You can find the answers in the article below. Feel invited to read it!
What cuckold is
Let’s begin by explaining what cuckold is. It is a term which in this form refers to men. Women in such relationship are called HotWives or Hotties. There is also a term for such a bond between a man and woman named cuckoldry. It is important to underline the fact, that they are life partners – couple, engaged or married. In this relationship, she is the one who has the right to make sideways leaps. However, this is controlled infidelity. What does it mean? The guy is fully aware of the leaps and derives satisfaction from the fact that his partner is having sex with other men. This usually involves BDSM type practises as well as exhibitionism.
Cuckold in practice
You have already learnt what cuckold is. But how does controlled betrayal looks like? Can a woman take this leap sideways at any time? Not really. This is what control is about, that the partner takes part in the whole process. It means, that they look for a man (or a few) with whom they want to meet. While the two are having fun, the woman’s partner is often in the same room, but does not often participate in the sexual intercourse. He usually sits and watches them or records the couple playing together. In a stronger version, he is sometimes insulted and humiliated. If, on the other hand, he likes to peep, (we wrote about voyeurism in an article concerning the most popular fetishes) he can stay in the other room and watch them “from a hidden place”.
Is controlled infidelity worth trying?
Now you know what cuckold is and how controlled betrayal looks like. It’s time to answer yourselves whether it is worth doing it. For many partners, it is difficult even to imagine their beloved looking for a little sidebar action. However, if you fantasise about it sometimes – perhaps you need to consider such a step. Nonetheless, it is important to remember that such games can change the nature of a relationship. Not necessarily do they make it worse, as some couples praise these practises, but it is possible that you won’t look at each other in the same way again. Certainly, a bad time to play this kind of game is in a moment of crisis between spouses. If this happens, it will only worsen the condition.
It is also worth explaining to your partner what cuckold is, before making any decision. It may occur that she also desired something similar because, after all, the erotic fantasies of men and women can be really lush. However, you must be prepared for any reaction on her part. This should be definitely a conscious decision by both partners.
What about you? What do you think about cuckold?
Sexual games such as cuckold evoke extreme emotions in the society. It is mainly because a lot of people are committed to monogamy which, after all, has been in some way dictated by evolution. Nevertheless, those who know what cuckold is, and decide to take a step in that direction, often say, that such games invigorate their relationship. The men chosen for the fun only have their partner for a little while, and they have her for the rest of the time. What is your opinion about that fetish? If this excites you, or you’re looking for something different, take a look at our blog where we write about different tastes!
